Sunday, December 16, 2007

10 Things I Learned to Appreciate after Becoming a Mom

Since becoming a mother there are many things that I have learned to appreciate. Either because they make my life easier/enjoyable or because I so rarely get these treats that I relish every moment of them.
1) Non-alcoholic beer- I learned to love O'Doules when I was pregnant. Nothing beats a beer with pizza or many of the other pregnancy cravings that I had. Of course I could not drink alcohol during pregnancy and now that I am nursing, alcohol is very limited. So now it is O'Doules for me... As Homer Simpson would say, "No Beer makes Maria go crazy".
2) A "Hollywood" shower-When I get to take a shower without hearing a baby screaming for me to hurry up and I actually get to lather, rinse, and repeat--this is a very rare treat.
3) A husband who cooks for me-If the cooking was left to me I would have sandwiches or cereal every night. It is just too difficult to juggle work, baby, and then making a meal at Matthew's "fuss hour". I always appreciate when Tony or my father in law cooks dinner for us. If I get to eat the meal while it is hot, instead of after feeding Matthew, even better.
4) Working out at the gym-This is an hour and a half of time completely dedicated to myself. Before the baby, I complained about having to work out to get in shape, but now I enjoy these rare moments to myself.
5) Caffeine-What a cruel joke nature plays on new mothers. We are exhausted from multiple nightly feedings, nursing releases a hormone that makes us sleepy, and we have to cut down on our caffeine to boot. The lactation specialist told me I can have the equivalent of 2 diet cokes or coffee a day. I have decided to make these shots of caffeine count and I have them around 2 in the afternoon when I am most exhausted. It also prepares me for Matthew's fuss hour (5-6PM).

6) Starting and finishing a task in one sitting-I oftentimes blame my forgetfulness on lack of sleep or lack of caffeine, but in most cases I am forgetful because I start a task and get interupted before getting to finish it. Whether it be organizing the baby clothes and diapers, sending out Christmas cards, or writing blogs, it never fails.... before I am through it is time to attend to the little one. Uh oh.. the prince awakens.. he is saying that is time to eat. Maybe I will get to the last four things tomorrow, unless I forget.

2 comments:

MommaHolmes07 said...

I enjoyed reading your comments and found myself nodding when I read them as I was drinking my Diet Coke.

lpittinger said...

Thank you so much for sharing this snippet of Matthew and your new lives as mom and Dad. It just keeps getting better. God bless you and your family. Doreen